AUCTION UPDATE: man, oh MAN. i am deeply deeply humbled and amazed by the outpouring of support you've given by bidding, and bidding again, on this piece. the bid is at this point (6pm Friday) all the way up to $500.00. imagine what that money will do for getting medicinal help to those who need it (so many, so so many) in haiti!!! remember, bidding ends tonight jan. 15, at midnight. thanking you all for everything - for being here, for sending such positive words of encouragement and support, for bidding on this necklace, for continuing to come back again and again. i don't even know how to begin to say thanks, but - thank you. thank you, thank you. xo
i live in a fog, sometimes. often, really. i don't have radio reception out here, i don't watch the news on tv. so when i heard yesterday evening about the horrific earthquake that leveled much of haiti, i was horrified that i'd posted such an ignorant, self centered post yesterday morning about being back home, where all is cozy, all is good, safe, secure. i lead a pampered life, by worldly definition, with a heater that comes on, water that flows from a faucet, food that is readily purchased twelve miles down the road. my walls have not fallen in on top of me. in short, i'm ashamed at my head being stuck so far down into the sand. what to do? how can i help? i'm listing below a couple of places that i know need our money - now. they need it now.
center for international disaster information
i pulled all three of these links from the white house official site. what else to do? as an artist, i can donate funds from a piece of jewelry that i'd been working on for a valentine piece, tucked away since before the mayhem of the holidays. this isn't my original idea, i've seen a couple of other artists offering their help in this same way; but the need and desire to help are mine as well, and i'm reaching out in the only way i know to do right now. the message seems appropriate, and i'm hoping that someone out there will feel that this is a worthy cause and contribution (click on any photo here for a closer look; pardon the light - this wonderful winter (sharp) light washes everything out; i'm in a hurry here and using whatever light is available this morning).
bids will start at $75.00, placed by leaving a comment here at ornamental; the auction will close at midnight, tomorrow night (friday). at that time, i'll send a paypal invoice to the winning bidder's email (make sure to leave a link for me when you comment, please), and make a contribution to doctors without borders/haiti relief, then will send the receipt to the winning bidder as well. i'll add $100.00 of my own funds to the amount. shipping charges will be waived. woven into this piece are faceted rubies, pink tourmaline, bronze freshwater pearls, and a faceted garnet dangling in the back. the locket is silverplate, lined with maroon suede. the small sterling heart there to the left, dangling, is from the amazing collection of candace wakumoto; some of her designs are sold in the shop of my fellow jewelry sweetheart friend, andrew thornton.
up at the top i've attached a small mother mary charm, something i discovered when opening a wonderful package of gifted antique findings and treasures last night from another lovely reader, martha appleberry (thank you martha!!!); it seemed quite fitting for this particular piece.
the necklace, made with deep red sari silk and strips of stretchy dark red netting and suede, adjusts from 19 1/2" to 21 1/2".
anyway. i thank you in advance, for helping me to help, in this way. meanwhile - do whatever you can, however you can. reach out. somehow, some way. xo
and one more thing - a reader, ruth savoy, sent a link to this blog written by a family living in haiti, The Livesay (Haiti) Weblog, for a very real, close hand look at what is happening in the aftermath of the earthquake.

Don't berate yourself for something that is out of your control. You have every right to post your feelings no matter what else is happening in the world. All we can do is pray and send relief funds, and that is exactly what you're doing! Peace be with you!
Posted by: Sharon | January 14, 2010 at 12:51 PM
Thank you for doing what you can.
I will post of bid of $100
Anyone care to go higher?
Enjoy the day!
Erin
Posted by: Erin Prais-Hintz | January 14, 2010 at 01:04 PM
absolutely...what a wonderful thing!
$125 from here...
who's next?
thanks be to you, dear nina....
hugs...
Posted by: Tina in McLeansville | January 14, 2010 at 01:10 PM
i will bid $150
from cold florida
not so very far away from haitii.
how did we miss feeling
even one little shudder?
Posted by: somepinkflowers | January 14, 2010 at 01:25 PM
what a lovely piece for such a generous gesture... that is what artists do... if we all do what we can, the job will get done...
Posted by: mary jane dodd | January 14, 2010 at 01:31 PM
You are doing more than I did. All you can do is do what you can, you blogged and are offering something, all I could do is blog due to a huge bill....prayer helps too I think.
Posted by: TC | January 14, 2010 at 02:02 PM
you can enter this giveaway also. PW is giving 2 winners $500 each to give to the charity of their choice helping Haiti, and also donating .10 for each person who enters.
Posted by: Joanie Hoffman | January 14, 2010 at 02:29 PM
I will bid $175 from California. Love your generosity and thought, Nina! Here is California, we are always on the edge, so to speak, and my heart goes out to those who have bit hit.
Posted by: Teri Mahl | January 14, 2010 at 03:04 PM
Whoops...many typos. Here 'in' California and have 'been' hit. Sorry...typing too fast!
Posted by: Teri Mahl | January 14, 2010 at 03:06 PM
sorry, forgot the link...
http://thepioneerwoman.com/confessions/
Posted by: Joanie Hoffman | January 14, 2010 at 04:27 PM
Nina, I just blogged about your giveaway. I hope that helps, even a little bit :-)
Posted by: Lennie | January 14, 2010 at 04:45 PM
I bid $300.00 Nina, you are amazing to offer your time, talent and $$. Every group I am involved with has started "something" this week to help Haiti. It's so good to see our creative community reach out as well. Nilene
Posted by: Nilene | January 14, 2010 at 05:53 PM
dang.....you go Nilene!
Posted by: Tina in McLeansville | January 14, 2010 at 06:00 PM
I can't over bid the highest bid but I can go to the Highest and pray for all of Haiti! Thats a very big faultline there and it is said to maybe shift again in another 20 to 40 years. What tragety I hope and pray they can continue to rescue many many more people!
Posted by: Janet McDonald | January 14, 2010 at 06:37 PM
Now you know and you're doing what you can. Beautiful necklace, wish I could bid, but I can do my own little part.
www.care.org is another place accepting donations.
I am having a sale at my artfire shop and donating 50% of my proceeds on February 26.
Your "bliss" post should remind us all that we have so, SO many things to be grateful for.
Posted by: Deborah VanDetta | January 14, 2010 at 07:28 PM
I second what Sharon said. You do not need to apologize or berate yourself at all. While I would love nothing more than to own a piece of your jewelry, I cannot afford to make a bid for it. I am splitting what money I can between Doctors without Borders and a private fund to go to a special friend who lives in Haiti. I found out late this afternoon that he is okay and that brought a wonderful moment of relief to me. I so admire what you are doing. I know that the money you make from your art is how you support yourself and giving it so generously is just one example of why so many admire your beautiful soul.
love and blessings
~*~
Posted by: Laura | January 14, 2010 at 07:54 PM
Dang! Got here too late to enter a low bid which is what I could afford.
Blessings on you, Nina and blessings on your readers with your/their generous hearts.
Your kindnesses will be appreciated.
Peace,
Sassi
PS: Absolutely love this necklace, girl! ;))))))))))))xoxoxo
Posted by: Shirley | January 14, 2010 at 08:05 PM
Hi Nina I love this igea and I will bid $325.00.
Susan
Posted by: Susan greene | January 14, 2010 at 08:47 PM
I can't make a bid, but just wanted to say... bless you, Nina, for doing what you are doing for Haiti. All I can send is many heartfelt prayers.
Posted by: Kelly Jeanette | January 14, 2010 at 09:19 PM
i've contributed already; but I think what you're doing is commendable. i know you did not mean to be insensitive. what has happened has been a shock to the world...thank you and what a beautiful necklace for a great cause and i love the words
Posted by: sandra | January 14, 2010 at 10:32 PM
Nina, gratitude is never, ever a bad thing, never ignorant or self-centered. Blessings to you and prayers for the people of Haiti.
Sherry in Little Rock
Posted by: Sherry Ford | January 14, 2010 at 10:46 PM
It was a nice break to read your post--a moment away from the cable news and constant updates, the feelings of helplessness, overwhemled by the destruction and level of human suffering. At times like this I wish I were a doctor or some kind of miracle worker.
The only thing I have of value is my prayers.
Nancy
in Iowa
Posted by: Nancy Prawdzik-Steinbach | January 15, 2010 at 12:11 AM
I love that you are offering this piece (which is fabulous!!!!) to help in Haiti. We have all been devastated by the news, whenever it reached us. xo
Posted by: Renate | January 15, 2010 at 01:26 AM
You "feel" what happens to you.... AND you have feelings for what happens to others. That is being sensitive, not self centered. It is about you, and is ALSO about the rest of the world. You are putting your talents to work and making a difference. How admirable !
Posted by: Liza | January 15, 2010 at 10:08 AM
I bid $395.00. The posts have been so touching to read. This globe of ours is so very small. The ripple affect of a Katrina or of an entire country being flattened by an earthquake feels as though it's in my back yard and I MUST help... Nilene
Posted by: Nilene | January 15, 2010 at 10:38 AM
don't feel so bad, i too don't watch, hear or read the news too much for personal and health reasons.
what you are doing now is wonderful and generous. my hope and prayers are with Haiti.
Posted by: sandra | January 15, 2010 at 12:43 PM
I bid $450. XO
Posted by: Michele R. Unger | January 15, 2010 at 01:50 PM
I wish I could bid on this absolutely gorgeous necklace...may I link this post to my blog?
Posted by: Melissa Meman | January 15, 2010 at 02:13 PM
I bid $500.
Posted by: Gena | January 15, 2010 at 02:31 PM
Wow Gena! ....you're aces with me! Nilene
Posted by: Nilene | January 15, 2010 at 02:50 PM
You all ROCK!
Nina I'm so proud of you. See what you've done? It's amazing to me. I don't watch the news or read newspapers either. I was shocked to learn how devastating this earthquake was, a couple of days after it happened.
I was very tempted to bid on this necklace. My husband had been laid off work since November 2nd, but just got a job on Wednesday. So, I almost did bid. Then I realized that I really do need to pay on back bills. So, I donated what little I could at this time myself. I hope that everyone else who is inspired by your generousity will do the same. Every dollar helps.
Thank you, for once again inspiring me.
Posted by: Sharon | January 15, 2010 at 03:15 PM
well...since it is apparent i won't be able to outbid the wonderful ladies with the deep pockets (although i do think a bidding war would be fun to watch!) :) i will take the bid i made earlier and apply that to one of the relief organizations....i won't have one of nina's necklaces to wear, but, oh well...someday....
this was a tremendously cool idea! xo
Posted by: Tina in McLeansville | January 15, 2010 at 04:18 PM
Hi ((((Nina)))
Can't bid - but bless you for doing this. I can't believe what we are seeing and reading about what has happened. I have made a donation. I just hope that the international aid starts flowing through soon for these poor people.
The necklace is gorgeous. Of course.
Sara xxxx
Posted by: Sara | January 15, 2010 at 04:20 PM
Thank you for the link The Livesay (Haiti) Weblog
Posted by: Mary K | January 15, 2010 at 06:34 PM
Your generosity, Nina, as well as all the comments and thoughts from your wonderful readers, is just amazing! What a tremendous community of caring souls.
I'm so inspired by your idea -- do you mind it I take it and "pay it forward"? Maybe gather some like-minded neighbors and have a multi-yard sale, or perhaps collect a group of talented friends who're willing to sell or auction off selected works, w/ proceeds going to the relief efforts?
Bless you for opening your heart and your talent to help where it matters most ..
Posted by: Maggy | January 15, 2010 at 07:00 PM
Nina, you're amazing. Thank you for doing this. You give so much to the world with your beautiful sentiments, creative outputs and your heartfelt outreaching.
Thanks also for mentioning my shop. You're a dear!
Posted by: Andrew Thornton | January 16, 2010 at 01:48 AM
So very generous of you...your necklace is incredible. I'm so happy to see the generosity of so many here.
Posted by: Cindy | January 16, 2010 at 01:48 AM
xo
Posted by: herhimnbryn | January 16, 2010 at 05:58 PM
WOW, one whine fest of 151 comments on your 'life throws rocks' post and 30 some comments on real life tragedy.
Again - Wow
Bloggers priorities I guess.
Posted by: mia | January 18, 2010 at 03:48 PM
WOW - hits home I guess.
Posted by: mia | January 18, 2010 at 03:50 PM